Today's blog comes to you from the very depths of my cold dark heart. What spawned it? Well. Read on my friend. Read on.
You know what I can't stand? I can't stand someone who feels they have the right to make someone else feel like less than for being physically "not on par" with them.
A person close to me...very close...messaged me today and showed me a string of words that a little boy vomited from his mouth as "honesty" and "truth"...as if he was the end all of end alls. He seems to think that his superior physique means that it's okay to belittle this person that I care deeply about; to make her feel as if, even for a moment in time, she is not worth his time.
Let me school you on something little boy...
A woman's weight does not define her.
A woman's looks do not define her.
A woman's ability to give you a hard on do not define her.
Know what DOES define her?
Her complete inner beauty that matches her outer beauty.
Her sass and smarts.
Her ability to take something hurtful and put it into words, then sing those words with such power and emotion that you FEEL them in the depths of your soul.
Her ability to work full time in an industry controlled by men, and kick ass at that job.
Her extreme intelligence and ability to finish school and then say "it's not enough" and then go on to get her masters.
Her love for her family.
Her pride in where she comes from; what made her who she is.
Her joy in life.
Get the picture yet???
She is too good for you.
She will go on to do much better things than you ever will.
She will look back at this hiccup and laugh, because it is funny. It's funny that someone so insignificant in this life would think he has the right to tell her that her weight was a turn off.
You do not deserve her. You never did. You never will.
Little boys who grow up thinking they know everything about everything will never do much with their life. They will marry and probably divorce, because their love will be based on a physical foundation that WILL change. Even the thinnest woman will grow old. Even the most adoring woman who puts up with your bullshit will become smart enough to say ENOUGH and leave you where you belong...
In your late 40s with nothing to call your own, but your sagging skin and once toned abs.
You have no wit, no charm, and no couth. You, sir, are a loser.
So, tell her she's not worth your time. She will laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and then move on. You don't define her, and you never will.
She's a bad ass and knows it.
To ALL my girls out there reading this...you are worth it. You are amazing. You are more than your looks and your sex appeal. You are loved. Remember this.